"With friends like that, who needs enemies!??" Some
people are so needy that they can't see that your needs
are greater! I know you feel bad about thought of hurting
your friend, but from what you said she is a user...and
you need to have people around you who understand
and let you set limits. Your hubby must be a grand
gentleman---mine would do anything for me but would
not allow a child to behave in the manner that child was.
I think you could say that lady has a lot of gall! and then
to put it on your back that you'd have to call her is rubbish!
Guess I'm spouting off....but my patience is not what it use
to be!! JanH