[TMIC] OT- Great Story-Wonderful Moral

Rizahdough(AT)aol.com
Wed, 5 May 1999 14:48:23 EDT

Hello All,
With the mail to the list these past few weeks, being a bit on the
sad side of things.......I thought this story was a wonderful way to say,
"Knock knock! We have a lot to be thankful for, we just need to realize our
self worth and once WE do......everyone will follow suit". I am a believer
in "what we put out, we get back". In the animal kingdom..... animals sense
the weaker of the species and pick them for their own needs. We "human
animals" I'm sad to say, do the same thing. This story is close to how I
feel about many things, one of which is "words" can hurt and can cause an
injury deep in ones heart and soul.......but...... they can also work
miracles, stimulate imagination, make a believer out of a non-believer and
best of all....they can convey a message that will enable the listener to a
better place within himself. How much more wonderful can that be? You may
have read this story before, but I hope you read it again to the end.
Smiles to all of you, Kris~

Two men, both seriously ill, occupied the same hospital room. One man was
allowed to sit up in his bed for an hour each afternoon to help drain the
fluid from his lungs. His bed was next to the room's only window. The other
man had to spend all his time flat on his back.

The men talked for hours on end. They spoke of their wives and families,
their homes, their jobs, their involvement in the military service, where
they had been on vacation.

And every afternoon when the man in the bed by the window could sit up, he
would pass the time by describing to his roommate all the things he could
see outside the window. The man in the other bed began to live for those
one-hour periods where his world would be broadened and enlivened by all the
activity and color of the world outside. The window overlooked a park with a
lovely lake. Ducks and swans played on the water while children sailed their
model boats. Young lovers walked arm in arm amidst flowers of every color
of the rainbow. Grand old trees graced the landscape, and a fine view of
the city skyline could be seen in the distance. As the man by the window
described all this in exquisite detail, the man on the other side of the room
would close his eyes and imagine the picturesque scene.

One warm afternoon the man by the window described a parade passing by.
Although the other man couldn't hear the band - he could see it in his
mind's eye as the gentleman by the window portrayed it with descriptive
words. Days and weeks passed.

One morning, the day nurse arrived to bring water for their baths
only to find the lifeless body of the man by the window, who had died
peacefully in his sleep. She was saddened and called the hospital
attendants to take the body away.

As soon as it seemed appropriate, the other man asked if he could be moved
next to the window. The nurse was happy to make the switch, and after
making sure he was comfortable, she left him alone. Slowly, painfully, he
propped himself up on one elbow to take his first look at the world outside.
Finally, he would have the joy of seeing it for himself. He strained to
slowly turn to look out the window beside the bed. It faced a blank wall.

The man asked the nurse what could have compelled his deceased roommate who
had described such wonderful things outside this window. The nurse
responded that the man was blind and could not even see the wall. She said,
"Perhaps he just wanted to encourage you."

Epilogue. . . .There is tremendous happiness in making others happy, despite
our own situations. Shared grief is half the sorrow, but happiness when
shared, is doubled. If you want to feel rich, just count all of the things
you have that money can't buy. "Today is a gift, that's why it is called
the present."