My heart was warmed by your posts today. The fact you are both trying,
communicating, and being honest with yourselves and each other will go a long
way. And, yes, calling for help when needed is a good thing!! :)
One of the things I thought of but forgot to mention in my ramblings was that
some men tend to express concern or frustration or nearly any kind of upset as
anger (my step-father and a close friend's husband are among many like this --
I don't know why -- maybe that is a carry-over from the old school of thought
that men weren't supposed to show certain emotions), and I did wonder if that
may have been what Peter was doing.
You've both been under a significant amount of stress lately. Keep clinging to
each other.:) We're rooting for you and praying for you.
Barbara H.