Re: Asking you all for advice!!!!

Rizahdough(AT)aol.com
Mon, 22 Feb 1999 16:16:27 EST

Hi Barb,
Seems like this is a bad day for you. We all get them, I can attest to that.
My only word of advice is to NOT do anything right now. Just take a break,
your emotions are on what I call "low tide". Wait awhile have something to
eat, collect your thoughts and when your emotions are on an even keel, you'll
know just what you should do.
As for Bill, well, he was hit with some distressing news. His beloved garden
was ruined. His initial reaction was one of despair and he reacted and lashed
out at you. Why? Well......he knows he could and you'd understand. We
always strike out at the ones who are the closest. The grocery thing was just
another strike out.
Once you feel better, go talk with him, hopefully he will feel better too.
If not, let him know his garden will live again. It is important for him to
have that little bit of heaven to sit and admire once again.

I sure can understand your anger. Wow, I may have acted out right then and
there, how cruel that was indeed. You did the right thing, you sat down at
your computer and got it out. Hope you feel better now.

Let us know how things go and how Bill is doing now.

Smiles & hugs to you both,
Kris~