You don't have to apologize to us for any question
you want to ask..we all either have tm or are care-
takers of someone with tm, and we've all been where
you are right now. I think that Alton gave you some
information on books that may answer your questions.
Also about your bowel problem, my urologist told me
that the bladder and bowel are controlled at the L-1 to
L-4 levels and if you are having bladder problems it makes
sense that your bowels are involved, too. Alton has a cute
saying that his doc gave him that explains bowel/bladder
involvement.
Anyway, ask away. Someone will know what you are talking
about and will be able to answer you. Welcome to this group!
Sorry you had to have tm to find us, but we're glad you did
find us because we know what you are going through and want
you to know we care and understand.
JanH