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Welcome to the list. I had to respond to your comment about feeling "guilty."
When I was first diagnosed I would tell myself that I should be happy that it
wasn't something worse or I'd tell myself that lots of other people have it
worse. My therapist reminded me that all my feelings were real and that
adding guilt was not healthy. It still hits me often but I try hard to remind
myself that things are never as they seem. Some people may be in wheel chairs
but have very understanding mates and skills that allow them work in areas
other than before or they may be miserable. I can walk well unless I"m really
tired but can't afford to lose my job and don't have a very understanding
hubby. By no means am I saying my situation is worse. I am just saying
things not only aren't always greener, they are not always blacker, either.
We do have to be thankful for what we have but we have to also be patient with
ourselves and accept the times that we feel sorry for ourselves - as long as
they aren't too often and don't last too long!
I wish you the best. You have found a wonderful list full of people who have
really touched my heart and soul (and sense of humour) in the last few months.
Take care!
Annie in STX