Re: Friends

JHarper33(AT)aol.com
Tue, 13 Oct 1998 23:05:17 EDT

In a message dated 10/13/98 11:02:26 AM EST, djgodfrey(AT)worldnet.att.net
writes:

> I have a neighbor who should see this because she has told
> me I'm a real turnoff when I walk. If she only knew how much it hurts
> because I'm pleased that I can walk at all. Before I met her I was
> paralyzed, it almost took my joy away when she told me this. Isn't it
> unfortunate that many people feel this way about people different than
> themselves. We should be glad that the majority arent't this narrow
> minded.
> Thanks for sharing. Diana

I am so amazed anyone would say something like that! I wonder if it is a
spill-over from the talk-show mentality. I don't watch talk shows, but from
time to time come across one while flipping through channels, and I can't
believe people just jump up and say the things they do to each other. I think
a handicap or disability of heart or attitude is much sadder than a physical
one. You just hang on to your joy of walking in any way, shape, or form!!
:-) Maybe saying something to your neighbor, like, "Well, I used to be
paralyzed, so I'm glad I can walk at all," would enlighten her a little.
Sometimes people just don't think before speaking.

All my best to you,
Barbara H.