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I remeber a month ago or so there was someone who asked if there was a
family support group here on the net. I wish that person would e-mail
me. It is my husband that has been dealing with tm now for 6 months. I
am trying to deal with his feelings and my own. This affects the whole
family and I would like to share with some family members support for
them as well as the person who has the tm. My husband does not read the
postings but I pass on info that relates to him. He is haveing a bad
time dealing at times and I would like to know what to say or how to
help. Thank you ,Zada >>
Dear Zada,Rev. Adelle,and Mary,
This tmic group consists of caregivers such as
mothers,spouses,sisters,grandmothers,sister-in-laws and companions of
tm'ers.That's what makes the list so unique. Support and information is passed
along continuely. As new people join the list,they are happy to welcome others
and provide info and support. So,you all feel free to ask questions or make
contributions,because they are most welcome. If I were the caregiver,I would
be trying to maintain or instill a positive attitude in myself and the tm'er.
You are also on the right course on seeking info and support. My advice is for
the tm'er to work at physical therapy and symptom management.There is lots of
hope in research to find a cure and nerve and myelin regeneration techniques.
The tm'er does not have time to wallow in self pity or fall into a depressive
state of mind. This is where the caregiver or family must show strong support
for the tm'er and keep her or his morale high. This morale gives the tm'er the
will to do the hard work necessary to prevail. Remember there is no room for
any negatives in showing your support. May God bess you all.
Phil