> Ashley,
>
> Please get rid of the idea that tm has stolen your life!!
> Shift your thinking to what you can do to help yourself
> regain some of the functions that are not working at this
> time. A positive attitude goes a long way in helping you
> cope with what is happening to you now. I also think that
> humor and laughter helps you cope and also aids in your
> recovery.
>
> In my case, I counted every little gain! and we laughed at
> the things that happened as I tried new steps. I also spent
> time doing little things to help around the house the used to
> be 'small potatoes' but were now great accomplishments!
> I pulled myself up to the sink and sat on a stepstool to peel
> veggies, etc, which took a lot of time and yet gave me a feeling
> that I was still a contributing member of the family.
>
> I also practiced what the pt had me doing so that when he came
> the next time I had mastered that and was ready to do the next
> project he had for me. He said he liked to start his day with me
> because I had a positive outlook and didn't know the word can't.
> This seems to you as something small but every little thing helps
> and while you are doing this, you are improving in what seems
> like very simple steps. Looking back then shows you how much
> you have gained while you weren't even thinking about it.
>
> Good luck. Keep your chin up and go for it!!! JanH
Well said JanH,
Ashley read this a few times over until it clicks. You must stay
positive! Give it your all!
My best to you, Deborah