Re: Help?

JHarper33(AT)aol.com
Sun, 23 Aug 1998 23:30:49 EDT

This was sent to me, but since it starts with "Hello everyone," I think it was
meant for the list, so I'm forwarding it on. If you want to reply to her
directly, rather than on the list, please send it to her address at
IILoveII(AT)aol.com -- if you just hit reply it will come to me instead of her.

In a message dated 8/23/98 9:05:14 PM EST, IILOVEll(AT)aol.com writes:

> Subj: Help?
> Date: 8/23/98 9:05:14 PM EST
> From: IILOVEll(AT)aol.com
> To: bharper(AT)myelitis.org
>
> Hello everyone,
>
> Im only 13 yrs old and I have only had TM for 3 weeks now. It started 2
> days before I had any symtoms when I fell down a fled of stairs. Or atleast
> I
> think thats how it happered. I didnt tell anyone about my falling down the
> stairs accedent. Two days later I had flu symtoms. Only these were werse.
MY
> eyes became all red ,itchy ,crusty and didn't want to open. I had a stiff
> neck
> and a low grade tempature ,dry mouth and nausha. Three days later (I was
> still able to walk)(I had no clue what was going to happen) My boyfriend
and
> I
> got into a huge fight. Then my dad started in on my . My dad sared yelling
> at
> me for arguing with my boyfriend. He wasn't even par of the fight. But he (
> my
> dad) made me go downstairs and undercoat he car. the entire time I was
> crying.
> I was under alot of stress. While undercoating the car I was laying down
and
> wisting my back in possitions thwat were totaly abnormal for someones back.
> After undercoating the car I went upstairs and cried some more in my room.
> while lying down I felt a very sharp pain in he middle of my back. I go up
> and
> told my mother about it. She was sleeping so she couldn't really understand
> what i was talking about. She told me to shut up go away and lay back down.
> SO
> i did until the pain sarted to come around in front where my ribs are. I
> began
> having breathing problems. This got me into a panic. I sarted running
around
> panicing , crying ,and complaning about the pain in my back and chest. Then
> came the headache. That was the worst.It was worse than any migrane. I told
> my
> mom only this time more loudly she told my that the fight I had between my
> father and bofriend had me all rieled up and to just go lay down ,stop
> crying
> and relax.So I did. But the head ache was so undbarable I couldnt relax. I
> tossed and turned in bed for 30 min. I still had back pain,chest pain, and
> a
> head ache. Then I felt like my legs were getting all tiggly and flushed
> feeling.I thught nothing of it. I was laying down and crying so hard that
it
> was the last thing I was thinking about. Then the head ache started to fade
> away. When I went to get up and tell my mom my legs just wouldnt move. It
> was
> like everything from chest down fell asleep. My mom finally took me to the
> hospital. At the ER the docters came in and I told them sbout the fight I
> had
> been in recently. They thought it was phycological and that I would get
over
> it. Then when the neurologist came in to look at me he said that it was
> physical. It was. But they didnt care to find out what it was. They didnt
> care
> that I couldn't walk. They were too busy trying to charge my family with
> some
> sort of child abuse. I went in for an MRI that night and the docters said
it
> came back negative when there was actually a blurred spot that they couldnt
> see. They thought nothing of it. I got the worst care at the place where i
> should have gotten the best. Later when the docter (4 days later)looked at
> the
> MRI he noticed the blurred spot and sent me back for another MRI. That one
> came back the same. Then (2 days later) the docters that are still sitting
> on
> their asses doing nothing send me in for ANOTHER MRI. Only this time they
> injected me with dye. and repossioned me. the 3rd MRI showed signiffagant
> changes. But they never told us anything. The results were never givin to
me
> or my parents. I had blood drawn 1 or 2 times a day. testing for lime
> disease
> and other things.My parents never knew what was being done. I had 3 spinal
> taps done at that hospital. Never found out any of the results. Finally
> after
> 7 days me mom took me out of the hospital because I wasnt getting any care
> or
> any better. If anything I was getting worse. I had foot drop and I wasnt
> getting any physical theropy.The docter thought I should stay longer so
they
> could figure it out. But They werent even giving my mom results back from
> any
> of the tests. And my mom worked at that hospital as a nurse. Apparently
> someone who also worked at the hospial that knew my mom aproached my mom
and
> told her she had read the neurologists report. That informaion is
> confidental.
> That lady was fired after my mom reported her. two weeks I had last walked
> My
> mom took my up to a friend of hers , a nurse paritionor. We had to have the
> results from all the blood work and tests faxed to us because the docters
at
> the hospital wouldnt give it to us. This Nurse paritionor sugested a
> anoother
> hospital to go to. We did. There I was diagnosed wih TM. They found his out
> anfter two more MRI's a milagram and a catscan. Now I live at home where I
> get
> me own Physical theropy from myself and my mom. Im on steroids and I have
no
> control over me bladder YET. I am gaining (slowly) the ability to feel
> presure on my bladder again. I have shown progress in only 3 weeks . I
still
> can not move my legs volunarily. I have a lot of spasms, but they arnt
> painful
> just anoying. I have reflexes in my knees and ancles. I hink I am doing a
> good
> job so far. Hopefully I will make as close to 100 % recovery as posible.
But
> if not. Life will go on.
>
>
>