Re: Am I Competent???
FHargr3092(AT)aol.com
Tue, 7 Jul 1998 10:43:51 EDT
Roger, JanH here. l think that you have hit it on
the head! We look like our old selves but we are
no longer that person. We're just still in the same
'wrapper'! without the energy to be that other self!
I think that you have put it well--if you cannot go
back to work and do the job to the level you want
to accomplish, you better get out and enjoy what
you are capable of doing!! I think that striving for
a level of competence that you can no longer acheive
puts more stress on your body.
It is my opinion, that we must continue to do all we
can and accept what we cannot do and go on with
life--which is too short to waste crying over what was!
I know for me I now take time to 'smell the roses' and
love every minute I have with my family and friends. TM
served to show me what IS important in life!! (I also am
glad for the new friends I've made here) Have a Good Day!