<< Christi, Jan H here. Hang in there kid! Don''t
let anyone tell you that a positive attitude doesn't
help!!! Also, if he's so bent on finding a miracle,
he is not letting his body heal on its own as he
thinks 'get well!' >>
Christi:
Jan H gave you good advice. Keep you positive outlook. But, I also
understand the other side. We TMers do go through mourning. I have suffered
with depression for the first time in my life, I have fought with myself to
"snap out of it" and get back to my usual optimistic self. At my lowest
point emotionally I would be angry with people who tried to cheer me up and
make me see that things weren't as bad as it seemed. The depression is much
better for me now and I do feel closer to my old self. But, sometimes I am
pissed off--but I don't know at who or what! LOL... Sometimes I just want to
go out and hunt for victims... LOL
I don't know what the answers are. I just know that this is a very hard thing
to go through and we all have to deal with it in our own way.
Sharon M. (from Arizona)