And there is nothing unusual about self pity. It is practiced by the ill
and the healthy every day. Why this, why me, why, why, why?
I would never say to condone it just understand it maybe. I say let a
person feel 'self pity' just don't over react to it. Because what ever
you say, do, will more than likely be wrong. Self pity is a cry for
attention, the answer is always an understanding love.
Davej