> Joel,
>
> Jan, here. I don't have a frame of reference
> when it comes to no emotional support from
> my drs. They were with me in every way, and
> today I am learning more about how totally in-
> volved they were in my diagnosis and care. I
> know how frightened I was and don't fault any-
> one for being frightened and concerned about
> what was happening to them, I just have no pa-
> tience with those who spend time and energy
> feeling sorry for themselves. What a waste when
> they need to spend every ounce of energy helping
> themselves.
>
> Sorry if I have offended you or anyone else-but I
> want each and every one of us to work for a good
> future, not waste time thinking what was or could have
> been.
It's good to know, Jan, that you still love even those us who are
"whiners" and give us your permission to mourn our loses. I also agree
with you. We do have to move on and begin to live again. We just all
deal with it differently.
Thanks,
Steve