Re: doctors....

Ellen Hertz (eshertz(AT)access.digex.net)
Sun, 12 Oct 1997 22:38:22 -0400

Patti,
I don't want to start an unwanted thread on this, but if you aren't
completely confident who it is who has the problem you should be reassured.
They put HER in jail. She cries to her daughter about her
lost first love which must have been a long time ago if you
have three grandchildren. She comes over to your house so, in her own
way, she apparently needs you. I don't presume to tell you whether
you should pity her, forgive her or avoid her or maybe some of each.
I just want to tell you that her behavior is NOT a reflection
on you. You are coping with courage.

Ellen
At 11:34 AM 10/12/97 -0400, you wrote:
>Dear Elloen you hit the nail on the head. I did finally call the police and
>they did put her in jail. I hated to do that but something had to tell her
>she couldn't do those things to me. She was here when I wrote the letter
>Friday night andshe was so mad if she could have hurt me and got away with it
>she would have . My son was hereto and she no's better.I remenber when I
>waslittle my mother was the most important thing in my life. When I got older
>I always helped her be it money or what ever. Then when I needed help that is
>what I got. When she left friday the last thing she said was I should have
>stayed with my frist love then I would never had to have you. SECOND time she
>has told me that . Anyway thanks for listening.
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>Patti
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